Teh we are moving the drama portion of teh bachelorette thread over here thread
04-28-2006, 01:51 AM
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and a couple questions that haven't come up for some reason i think is odd..
1. if you're still dating the previous person as stated on the first post, are you still "intimate" with him?
<if you still are, i think that's kinda "weird".. for a lack of a better word, i think everyone knows what i mean>
2. if you know a relationship is doomed to fail, such as your current beau, why must you insist on having more lined up for you? for instance, ever thought of just staying single? why do you want to have another bf?
<lined up was not my quote, it was the starter of this thread>
i'm not trying to kill this thread or offend any of the guys here or anything like that.. but these are legitimate questions..
1. if you're still dating the previous person as stated on the first post, are you still "intimate" with him?
<if you still are, i think that's kinda "weird".. for a lack of a better word, i think everyone knows what i mean>
2. if you know a relationship is doomed to fail, such as your current beau, why must you insist on having more lined up for you? for instance, ever thought of just staying single? why do you want to have another bf?
<lined up was not my quote, it was the starter of this thread>
i'm not trying to kill this thread or offend any of the guys here or anything like that.. but these are legitimate questions..
04-28-2006, 02:02 AM
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Originally Posted by subaru3169
and a couple questions that haven't come up for some reason i think is odd..
1. if you're still dating the previous person as stated on the first post, are you still "intimate" with him?
<if you still are, i think that's kinda "weird".. for a lack of a better word, i think everyone knows what i mean>
2. if you know a relationship is doomed to fail, such as your current beau, why must you insist on having more lined up for you? for instance, ever thought of just staying single? why do you want to have another bf?
<lined up was not my quote, it was the starter of this thread>
i'm not trying to kill this thread or offend any of the guys here or anything like that.. but these are legitimate questions..
1. if you're still dating the previous person as stated on the first post, are you still "intimate" with him?
<if you still are, i think that's kinda "weird".. for a lack of a better word, i think everyone knows what i mean>
Originally Posted by dabachelorette
I'm not looking for a husband. Just looking for somebody nice to hang out with.
Originally Posted by dabachelorette
I'm not looking for a husband. Just looking for somebody nice to hang out with.
i'm not trying to kill this thread or offend any of the guys here or anything like that.. but these are legitimate questions..
Originally Posted by subaru3169
http://www.myspace.com/1742033
<i'm pretty sure some of you have seen my car cuz i drive EVERYWHERE.. but those pics are outdated>
i have no idea why i'm posting this.. haha
1. the pig in los angeles<gigantic surplus of bbq>
2. hold the door open for her
3. i'd pay for first date.. after that just go by ear
<i'm pretty sure some of you have seen my car cuz i drive EVERYWHERE.. but those pics are outdated>
i have no idea why i'm posting this.. haha
1. the pig in los angeles<gigantic surplus of bbq>
2. hold the door open for her
3. i'd pay for first date.. after that just go by ear
04-28-2006, 02:06 AM
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Originally Posted by subaru3169
i think i asked this b4 but i forgot.. but any of you guys meet up other than thurs? hope you guys wouldn't mind.. but i get off class at 10 pm on thurs..
04-28-2006, 02:15 AM
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Originally Posted by subaru3169
and a couple questions that haven't come up for some reason i think is odd..
1. if you're still dating the previous person as stated on the first post, are you still "intimate" with him?
<if you still are, i think that's kinda "weird".. for a lack of a better word, i think everyone knows what i mean>
2. if you know a relationship is doomed to fail, such as your current beau, why must you insist on having more lined up for you? for instance, ever thought of just staying single? why do you want to have another bf?
<lined up was not my quote, it was the starter of this thread>
i'm not trying to kill this thread or offend any of the guys here or anything like that.. but these are legitimate questions..
1. if you're still dating the previous person as stated on the first post, are you still "intimate" with him?
<if you still are, i think that's kinda "weird".. for a lack of a better word, i think everyone knows what i mean>
2. if you know a relationship is doomed to fail, such as your current beau, why must you insist on having more lined up for you? for instance, ever thought of just staying single? why do you want to have another bf?
<lined up was not my quote, it was the starter of this thread>
i'm not trying to kill this thread or offend any of the guys here or anything like that.. but these are legitimate questions..
First of all, in the beginning of this thread it does state that I am in a relationship because I went in this without hiding my current relationship status. Everbody who have replied, still post knowing that fact.
Even though the thread is titled "bachelorette", I'm not looking for someone to marry. As i posted before, I'm just looking for somebody nice to hang out with.
I sure that if you have a problem with all that's going on, you're definately not forced to stay in the discussion.
04-28-2006, 02:22 AM
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Originally Posted by LifePlaza
just some stuff I wanted to point out
anyway, in the first post of the thread, you unofficially quoted her saying having a man is like having a job.. can't quit til another is lined up.. so doesn't that imply she's looking for another bf to replace her current one?
perhaps what you had in mind and her intentions were mismatched.. but with all these posts and her random reponses, i'm gonna lean towards she's probably looking for another bf despite her saying she's lookin for someone to just hang out with.. otherwise, why go through all the trouble to just kick it?
i think it goes for both questions
and ya, i didn't mean i was arguing with you.. i just say stuff if it's inconsistent.. whoops
04-28-2006, 02:28 AM
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Originally Posted by dabachelorette
First of all, in the beginning of this thread it does state that I am in a relationship because I went in this without hiding my current relationship status. Everbody who have replied, still post knowing that fact.
Even though the thread is titled "bachelorette", I'm not looking for someone to marry. As i posted before, I'm just looking for somebody nice to hang out with.
I sure that if you have a problem with all that's going on, you're definately not forced to stay in the discussion.
Even though the thread is titled "bachelorette", I'm not looking for someone to marry. As i posted before, I'm just looking for somebody nice to hang out with.
I sure that if you have a problem with all that's going on, you're definately not forced to stay in the discussion.
again, i didn't mean to be an @$$hole, but i really am asking from an objective standpoint
04-28-2006, 02:33 AM
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Originally Posted by LifePlaza
just some stuff I wanted to point out
how come you quoted my post anyway? i didn't get it
04-28-2006, 03:10 AM
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Originally Posted by subaru3169
i've been on forums forever but i've never figured out how ppl quote a million other ppl in one post like you just did.. haha
anyway, in the first post of the thread, you unofficially quoted her saying having a man is like having a job.. can't quit til another is lined up.. so doesn't that imply she's looking for another bf to replace her current one?
anyway, in the first post of the thread, you unofficially quoted her saying having a man is like having a job.. can't quit til another is lined up.. so doesn't that imply she's looking for another bf to replace her current one?
Originally Posted by LifePlaza
So I'll take a page out of how to be a man and apply it to her.
She thinks having a man in her life is like a job. You can't quit untill you have another job lined up.
So who is interested.
She thinks having a man in her life is like a job. You can't quit untill you have another job lined up.
So who is interested.
Originally Posted by subaru3169
perhaps what you had in mind and her intentions were mismatched.. but with all these posts and her random reponses, i'm gonna lean towards she's probably looking for another bf despite her saying she's lookin for someone to just hang out with.. otherwise, why go through all the trouble to just kick it?
Since you do not hang out with a lot of us I'll fill you in on some truth to a lot of this.
A lot of people in general may not have the mojo you have, some people do not have the ***** to take pics of themselves with a shirt off to share on myspace. Heck some people can't even deal with the thought of rejection to talk to a girl.
Maybe we should just change SCIC back into a place soley about cars and for sale threads.
You tell me if this is a waste of everyone's time? Obviously the thousands of views people are doing on here seem like it's interesting yet you're the only one who likes to doubt. So in point, I-club=drama or Nasioc = hazing.
Other people pointed out there is no doubt or bad intent on my end and that goes same for dabachelorette. She's innocent on pretty much everything. So no need to attack her, if you have the need to be-little someone, talk down to someone, say it to me, not her.
I'm trying to do something for a friend as well as other things for other friends, introduce people to other people.
Yes it's something fun, yes it's entertaining, yes people like meeting new people for endless possibilities.
Originally Posted by subaru3169
i just asked cuz nobody asked.. perhaps they were afraid to ask or something.. so i thought i'd just do it
Originally Posted by subaru3169
how come you quoted my post anyway? i didn't get it
That is why I pointed this out to you.
Alot of times I never really feel the need to post things like this. I'd like to be a laid back guy, but understand the person you are talking about, or talking to is unfamiliar with this whole forum lifestyle. It is hard for her to see if you are serious, making fun of her, etc. Treat her as a guest. If you really feel the need to doubt, I will kindly ask you to withdraw and just in enjoy this from viewing perspective.
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04-28-2006, 03:27 AM
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Originally Posted by LifePlaza
I think I wrote I'll take a page out of how to be a man and apply it to her...
maybe my intentions were mismatch, maybe I had it wrong, Then again you're a psy major and you're suppose to be able to analize these differences of interpretation between a man and a woman
Since you do not hang out with a lot of us I'll fill you in on some truth to a lot of this.
A lot of people in general may not have the mojo you have, some people do not have the ***** to take pics of themselves with a shirt off to share on myspace. Heck some people can't even deal with the thought of rejection to talk to a girl.
Maybe we should just change SCIC back into a place soley about cars and for sale threads.
You tell me if this is a waste of everyone's time? Obviously the thousands of views people are doing on here seem like it's interesting yet your the only one who likes to doubt. So in point, I-club=drama or Nasioc = hazing.
Other people pointed out there is no doubt or bad intent on my end and that goes same for dabachelorette. She's innocent on pretty much everything. So no need to attack her, if you have the need to be-little someone, talk down to someone, say it to me, not her, I'm trying to do something for a friend as well as other things for other friends, introduce people to other people. There is no gain for me, there is no pay for me. The only gain is up to the people who actually want to help make this work. Yes it's something fun, yes it's entertaining, yes people like meeting new people for endless possibilities.
i just asked cuz nobody asked.. perhaps they were afraid to ask or something.. so i thought i'd just do it
I quoted your post because I explained the situation in the initial post. You decided to toss yourself into this. You answered the questions, you even posted your myspace info. This tells me you read everything I stated above, understood what was going on and now you're questioning it.
That is why I pointed this out to you.
Alot of times I never really feel the need to post things like this. I'd like to be a laid back guy, but understand the person you are talking about, or talking to is unfamiliar with this whole forum lifestyle. It is hard for her to see if you are serious, making fun of her, etc. Treat her as a guest. If you really feel the need to doubt, I will kindly ask you to withdraw and just in enjoy this from viewing perspective.
maybe my intentions were mismatch, maybe I had it wrong, Then again you're a psy major and you're suppose to be able to analize these differences of interpretation between a man and a woman
Since you do not hang out with a lot of us I'll fill you in on some truth to a lot of this.
A lot of people in general may not have the mojo you have, some people do not have the ***** to take pics of themselves with a shirt off to share on myspace. Heck some people can't even deal with the thought of rejection to talk to a girl.
Maybe we should just change SCIC back into a place soley about cars and for sale threads.
You tell me if this is a waste of everyone's time? Obviously the thousands of views people are doing on here seem like it's interesting yet your the only one who likes to doubt. So in point, I-club=drama or Nasioc = hazing.
Other people pointed out there is no doubt or bad intent on my end and that goes same for dabachelorette. She's innocent on pretty much everything. So no need to attack her, if you have the need to be-little someone, talk down to someone, say it to me, not her, I'm trying to do something for a friend as well as other things for other friends, introduce people to other people. There is no gain for me, there is no pay for me. The only gain is up to the people who actually want to help make this work. Yes it's something fun, yes it's entertaining, yes people like meeting new people for endless possibilities.
i just asked cuz nobody asked.. perhaps they were afraid to ask or something.. so i thought i'd just do it
I quoted your post because I explained the situation in the initial post. You decided to toss yourself into this. You answered the questions, you even posted your myspace info. This tells me you read everything I stated above, understood what was going on and now you're questioning it.
That is why I pointed this out to you.
Alot of times I never really feel the need to post things like this. I'd like to be a laid back guy, but understand the person you are talking about, or talking to is unfamiliar with this whole forum lifestyle. It is hard for her to see if you are serious, making fun of her, etc. Treat her as a guest. If you really feel the need to doubt, I will kindly ask you to withdraw and just in enjoy this from viewing perspective.
04-28-2006, 03:35 AM
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Originally Posted by LifePlaza
I think I wrote I'll take a page out of how to be a man and apply it to her...
maybe my intentions were mismatch, maybe I had it wrong, Then again you're a psy major and you're suppose to be able to analize these differences of interpretation between a man and a woman
maybe my intentions were mismatch, maybe I had it wrong, Then again you're a psy major and you're suppose to be able to analize these differences of interpretation between a man and a woman
and with your saying she's new to the forum world.. yes i do understand that it is possible she could be new.. which is why i stated the questions i asked were real and legitimate questions
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ooohhh i think i see what's happening.. i visited my myspace profile viewing it in public mode.. and i caught on to what MIGHT be the reason why you're bashing on me.. it's cuz of my team i bet.. oh man i almost forgot about that.. in all honesty, i have no idea what went on with you guys and my team cuz i didn't know any of you when that stuff happened before.. i only heard about how the drama started from one of my teammates.. doesn't relate to me in any way whatsoever just to let you know
for someone who doesn't like to be offended, you sure like to dish out a lot eh?
for someone who doesn't like to be offended, you sure like to dish out a lot eh?
04-28-2006, 07:56 AM
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OH my.. i went to sleep, woke up and found i'm 2 page behind.
Let me catch up on reading the response and I will post my response.
Edit:
Wow it seems there was alot of drama last night..
To dabachelorette,
Just to let you know not everyone on the forum is like this.
Yes, we do joke around sometimes so there is alot of inside joke you might not catch on as of yet.
I guess you can say everyone have their own attitude and personality and we don't all fit together. Please don't take it too personal.
I think knowing Franco for the past year, I understand him more than some of the other members on here. So the stuff he says I can really relate to.
But I think everyone here in general are all very friendly and would love to make a friend with you.
Let me catch up on reading the response and I will post my response.
Edit:
Wow it seems there was alot of drama last night..
To dabachelorette,
Just to let you know not everyone on the forum is like this.
Yes, we do joke around sometimes so there is alot of inside joke you might not catch on as of yet.
I guess you can say everyone have their own attitude and personality and we don't all fit together. Please don't take it too personal.
I think knowing Franco for the past year, I understand him more than some of the other members on here. So the stuff he says I can really relate to.
But I think everyone here in general are all very friendly and would love to make a friend with you.
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