you do this because you have interest with her right?

 

believe it or not.. it takes time, effort and energy to dress appropriate and feel right.. if i don't give a rat's ***.. i'd look sloppy at p*** and be as comfy as possible... of course i can look appropriate and be comfy too.. but that takes a tad more of an effort

 

yea i agree with franco on this alot of people do step it up a level before going out with a someone that has vested interest in. It doesn't always happen but i personally do it to a certian extent. like washing your car before going out

 

dude where have you been?

you need to hit so cal up again

 

Not last night.

 

my last two still talk to me


one is still cruising the board

HI KATRINA!!

 

I tried with the nice clothes. The problem I have is I don't feel comfortable in them... I like my t-shirt and jean + windbreaker/jackets. I figure... well they gonna find out the real me sooner or later.

I did wash my car this last month than last year combined.

I guess I just need to shop for more clothes. Maybe an i-club cool looking attire thread?

 

planned on another date? she was going to cancell on louis and go with the other guy ??

is this a possibiility

sorry i have be the pestimistic person

 

Well actually she is not canceling me. I decide to stop going out with her. She may call me and ask me out but I don't think that's likely because I think she sensed that I lost interest in her.

 

well my point is not really with you, its more of well she dressed up wearing something different last night. That means she is trying to still look good for you. Maybe you ought to think twice about ending it, but rather make her less of a priority.

Women (no offense ladies) crave attention, which is why they do things like "doll" themselves up. Once they notice you are not giving them the same amount of attention, they trick you by acting a different way, talking a different way, and in this case dressing a different way to gain your attention again.


Didn't mean for this to be a judge yourself thread, maybe I just gave a bad analogy.

 

go shopping with jerry

 

i agree with franco, you guys are missing the point. try to see the big picture and its not about shopping.

 

Tetsu can help out as she did with me.

 

I am definitely making her a less of my priority now. I know girls crave attention... so I'll see what happen now since I am not going to give her much of my attention.

 

Well its going to be 1 of 2 things

1. She's going to try and win your attention again by either making you feel bad either through jealousy or by making you envious.

2. She can just say screw it I was wrong and you're a waste of time.

The problem is when people say I'll wait it out and see what happens...

This tells me you have no goal or direction where you want to take this.

Sure you've lost interest and you've lost hope about it, but from what I see you still want a piece of the game. Think about what you want, and from there persuade the situation to where you want it to be. Remember you're a hunter and you've laid a bear trap out to catch a bear, follow through with it.