Getting a Divorce.
01-06-2004, 11:57 PM
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Getting a Divorce.
Yup.
I'm getting a divorce.
I'm pretty upset about it. However, the wife and I can't work things out. I want to try, but she says it will never happen. We're just too different I guess. I'm mature, she's not.
Of course everyone would expect me to say it's her fault, but it is shared. I don't display the patience needed for me to deal with her growing up. She's been showing a lot of progress when it comes to being a wife and mother. I was really really happy just a month ago. But one scenario ruined it for her. It didn't help me much either. I don't like wearing handcuffs or sitting in jail cells. Not to mention that black ink is hard to get off your hands and concrete isn't very fun to walk on in your socks. To put it short, she took playing a game too far and it is ruining my life. My career is shot down the tubes, I'm losing my daughter and wife.
All I have is my car.
and my tools.
And you guys.
So since this is the only public forum I can think of I'm using it to say to the world, or at least whoever reads this:
Kate, I'm sorry we couldn't make it work.
Taylor, I'm sorry daddy won't be around for you everyday. This is breaking my heart and I hope you won't hate me for it in the future.
I'm sorry.
I'm getting a divorce.
I'm pretty upset about it. However, the wife and I can't work things out. I want to try, but she says it will never happen. We're just too different I guess. I'm mature, she's not.
Of course everyone would expect me to say it's her fault, but it is shared. I don't display the patience needed for me to deal with her growing up. She's been showing a lot of progress when it comes to being a wife and mother. I was really really happy just a month ago. But one scenario ruined it for her. It didn't help me much either. I don't like wearing handcuffs or sitting in jail cells. Not to mention that black ink is hard to get off your hands and concrete isn't very fun to walk on in your socks. To put it short, she took playing a game too far and it is ruining my life. My career is shot down the tubes, I'm losing my daughter and wife.
All I have is my car.
and my tools.
And you guys.
So since this is the only public forum I can think of I'm using it to say to the world, or at least whoever reads this:
Kate, I'm sorry we couldn't make it work.
Taylor, I'm sorry daddy won't be around for you everyday. This is breaking my heart and I hope you won't hate me for it in the future.
I'm sorry.
01-07-2004, 12:03 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that Dom. You do have to do what you have to do. Nothing will last forever, and everyone's different...One thing I know will last forever though is that HIIC's gonna be with you always
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01-07-2004, 01:11 AM
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im sorry to hear this man
remember, this is as hard as it is on your daughter as it is on you
as a child of divorced parents i will give some advice
do NOT use your child to get back at the ex-wife
do not play her against your ex-wife
ex. don't tell your child one thing, only to have your ex-wife say something that is completely different, that is puttin it on the child to find out the truth about the whoel situation
do not talk trash about the ex-wife, kids hate to hear about how "she did this, and he did that"
you will make it through this an dim very sad it had to happen
my regards
max
remember, this is as hard as it is on your daughter as it is on you
as a child of divorced parents i will give some advice
do NOT use your child to get back at the ex-wife
do not play her against your ex-wife
ex. don't tell your child one thing, only to have your ex-wife say something that is completely different, that is puttin it on the child to find out the truth about the whoel situation
do not talk trash about the ex-wife, kids hate to hear about how "she did this, and he did that"
you will make it through this an dim very sad it had to happen
my regards
max
