Should get a divorce but are sticking it out
07-22-2011, 05:06 PM
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Yeah, my ex-wife was cheating and taking money we were supposed to be saving. Not only that, but she was a habitual liar. So I had to end that relationship.
It was seriously for the better.
Each situation is different. And it depends on what is involved. In my case, we had nothing, really. But when couples have a house(s), kids, tons of money, then it's a lot tougher to split.
It was seriously for the better.
Each situation is different. And it depends on what is involved. In my case, we had nothing, really. But when couples have a house(s), kids, tons of money, then it's a lot tougher to split.
07-22-2011, 06:52 PM
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Yeah, my ex-wife was cheating and taking money we were supposed to be saving. Not only that, but she was a habitual liar. So I had to end that relationship.
It was seriously for the better.
Each situation is different. And it depends on what is involved. In my case, we had nothing, really. But when couples have a house(s), kids, tons of money, then it's a lot tougher to split.
It was seriously for the better.
Each situation is different. And it depends on what is involved. In my case, we had nothing, really. But when couples have a house(s), kids, tons of money, then it's a lot tougher to split.
07-22-2011, 07:05 PM
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That is great in theory, but there are a lot of other reasons for divorce.
If a guy finds out his wife is cheating should he just 'be a man and stick it out'? Isn't it being more of a man to not let someone walk all over you and improve your situation?
Your statement is great in theory, but it's only a theory.
If a guy finds out his wife is cheating should he just 'be a man and stick it out'? Isn't it being more of a man to not let someone walk all over you and improve your situation?
Your statement is great in theory, but it's only a theory.
You see, in that case, HE should divorce because that is WRONG to any degree you want to put it.
Maybe I should just write out everything I believe and then maybe everybody can understand where I am coming from.
07-23-2011, 09:29 AM
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think about the kids and the living situations they will have to deal with because you 2 nub skulls were to damn selfish and retarded to keep a healthy marriage.
do you think the kids are going to enjoy living at one parents house one weekend then getting dragged over to the other parents house the next? its not fair to the kids to have to live out of a travel bag.
but most adults end up thinking only about themselves in these situations and never mind how it will effect their children...
oh BUT! they are GREAT parents....
(exceptions are marriages were there is an addiction or abusive problems ect.)
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07-23-2011, 10:41 AM
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because if you have kids ITS NOT ALWAYS ABOUT YOU!
think about the kids and the living situations they will have to deal with because you 2 nub skulls were to damn selfish and retarded to keep a healthy marriage.
do you think the kids are going to enjoy living at one parents house one weekend then getting dragged over to the other parents house the next? its not fair to the kids to have to live out of a travel bag.
but most adults end up thinking only about themselves in these situations and never mind how it will effect their children...
oh BUT! they are GREAT parents....
(exceptions are marriages were there is an addiction or abusive problems ect.)
think about the kids and the living situations they will have to deal with because you 2 nub skulls were to damn selfish and retarded to keep a healthy marriage.
do you think the kids are going to enjoy living at one parents house one weekend then getting dragged over to the other parents house the next? its not fair to the kids to have to live out of a travel bag.
but most adults end up thinking only about themselves in these situations and never mind how it will effect their children...
oh BUT! they are GREAT parents....
(exceptions are marriages were there is an addiction or abusive problems ect.)
07-25-2011, 01:22 PM
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because if you have kids ITS NOT ALWAYS ABOUT YOU!
think about the kids and the living situations they will have to deal with because you 2 nub skulls were to damn selfish and retarded to keep a healthy marriage.
do you think the kids are going to enjoy living at one parents house one weekend then getting dragged over to the other parents house the next? its not fair to the kids to have to live out of a travel bag.
but most adults end up thinking only about themselves in these situations and never mind how it will effect their children...
oh BUT! they are GREAT parents....
(exceptions are marriages were there is an addiction or abusive problems ect.)
think about the kids and the living situations they will have to deal with because you 2 nub skulls were to damn selfish and retarded to keep a healthy marriage.
do you think the kids are going to enjoy living at one parents house one weekend then getting dragged over to the other parents house the next? its not fair to the kids to have to live out of a travel bag.
but most adults end up thinking only about themselves in these situations and never mind how it will effect their children...
oh BUT! they are GREAT parents....
(exceptions are marriages were there is an addiction or abusive problems ect.)
Children are resilient and adaptable. They learn faster and more in depth than most adults do. Granted, they don't know all the concepts, but they understand context. Monkey see, monkey do, and if you fight in front of your kids, your kids will fight too.
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