interesting story from supra forum
11-03-2004, 12:26 AM
#1
interesting story from supra forum
Well, I am a single guy, a very cool guy who's down to earth and has no secret agendas. I put an ad on POF looking for a date, and got a response from a girl who said she was single too and looking for a date for the weekend. We talk on he phone and she was all cool and everything, I asked her if she wanted to grab coffee and a snack and then go to the movies this Saturday night. So we decide to meet at this place called Bari Cafe, and I figure we can have coffee and eat something there. She looked very nice but I noticed that she was very cold about the way she introduced herself once she met me. Notice that I am not a ugly guy, I might not be a Greek God, but I am a normal decent in shape guy. I figure she might've been shy, the first thing she said is that she was hungry and asked me if I didn't mind going to a restaurant.
I figured why not , so we get out of there and walk a few blocks and she picks this restaurant. I don't know the name but it looks like a very fancy restaurant and then she goes and orders some Merlot and then another and some appetizers that were a little pricey , I was confused about all this, because even though I have the money to pay for all this , I was not planning on taking a stranger to a fancy restaurant right out on our first date. She is still cold and talking only about herself and I noticed that she was not interested in me, but only on the drinks and the food. So we get to the main course and she gets a pricey entree, and I got something too, but I knew that I was going to be stuck with the bill. I knew it becasue she said she was out of work and having a problem finding a job, so I know she was not going to split the bill with me.
I was upset about the whole thing, and to be honest I am tired of being taken advantage of. I got up and told her that I was going to make a phone call, she knew I was going to come back because I left my Gap jacket, ( I bought it on sale for $23 dollars ) , so she never suspected I was going to dissapear because I left my jacket there.
So I go out and tell the guy at the entrance that I am going out to smoke an make a phone call. I got out and headed straight to the Car . I left that girl with my food and her food!!! LoL... Well, I got home and my voice mail was inundated with her phone calls, the girl had to pay the bill which came to $180 dollars , and she did not have money and she said that I did not have class and that I should send her the money , she left many nasty messages trying to get her money back from me. She ended up paying the bill with a credit card and all I lost was a cheap Gap Jacket that I got on sale.
I am not an ashole... I figure that if you don't like me at least let's have a nice time as friends but don't treat me like I am an idiot. I don't feel bad for what I did.
Although I lost a Jacket, I still didn't lose hope that there are nice girls out there for me.
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I figured why not , so we get out of there and walk a few blocks and she picks this restaurant. I don't know the name but it looks like a very fancy restaurant and then she goes and orders some Merlot and then another and some appetizers that were a little pricey , I was confused about all this, because even though I have the money to pay for all this , I was not planning on taking a stranger to a fancy restaurant right out on our first date. She is still cold and talking only about herself and I noticed that she was not interested in me, but only on the drinks and the food. So we get to the main course and she gets a pricey entree, and I got something too, but I knew that I was going to be stuck with the bill. I knew it becasue she said she was out of work and having a problem finding a job, so I know she was not going to split the bill with me.
I was upset about the whole thing, and to be honest I am tired of being taken advantage of. I got up and told her that I was going to make a phone call, she knew I was going to come back because I left my Gap jacket, ( I bought it on sale for $23 dollars ) , so she never suspected I was going to dissapear because I left my jacket there.
So I go out and tell the guy at the entrance that I am going out to smoke an make a phone call. I got out and headed straight to the Car . I left that girl with my food and her food!!! LoL... Well, I got home and my voice mail was inundated with her phone calls, the girl had to pay the bill which came to $180 dollars , and she did not have money and she said that I did not have class and that I should send her the money , she left many nasty messages trying to get her money back from me. She ended up paying the bill with a credit card and all I lost was a cheap Gap Jacket that I got on sale.
I am not an ashole... I figure that if you don't like me at least let's have a nice time as friends but don't treat me like I am an idiot. I don't feel bad for what I did.
Although I lost a Jacket, I still didn't lose hope that there are nice girls out there for me.
http://www.supraforums.com/forum/sho...hreadid=236214
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11-03-2004, 10:21 AM
#8
I have herd a lot of things about todays girls who are surfing the "dating" sites. there all considered dinner ****** today, and then in the end they wanna decide to argue and say they are not.
Good luck to all of you who go through these dating services, Its sad to see these girls who think thier smart and they can take advantage of the guys who are simply trying to meet a friend.
And Mad Props to you "Greek God" That was a nice move and you did nothing wrong be proud, be strong.
Good luck to all of you who go through these dating services, Its sad to see these girls who think thier smart and they can take advantage of the guys who are simply trying to meet a friend.
And Mad Props to you "Greek God" That was a nice move and you did nothing wrong be proud, be strong.
11-03-2004, 11:20 AM
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i must say, good for you for doing what you know was good for you!
perhaps this will open her eyes a bit.
or it will just bitter her up some more.. who know.. at least you got out of there in due time.
perhaps this will open her eyes a bit.
or it will just bitter her up some more.. who know.. at least you got out of there in due time.
