AUDT: Some women are evil!
06-11-2009, 02:46 PM
#121
Wow. So glad I'm not still dating. It's all so much hard work and stress.
Don't get me wrong, the strange poon is always nice, but the hassle getting to that point is too much. I'm glad I'm married.
Don't get me wrong, the strange poon is always nice, but the hassle getting to that point is too much. I'm glad I'm married.
06-11-2009, 02:47 PM
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All these mind games and dating games...back and forth back and forth...so much time is wasted.
What is wrong with going up to someone and saying 'Hey, I like you.' 'Oh wow really? I like you too!' 'We should grab coffee sometime.' 'Sounds great!'
Peter Gibbons had it SO right when it came to asking a girl out:
"I wanna take you out to dinner, and then I wanna go back to my apartment and watch 'Kung Fu'. Do you ever watch 'Kung Fu'?"
"I love 'Kung Fu'."
"Channel 39."
"Totally."
"You should come over and watch 'Kung Fu' tonight."
Iceman.
What is wrong with going up to someone and saying 'Hey, I like you.' 'Oh wow really? I like you too!' 'We should grab coffee sometime.' 'Sounds great!'
Peter Gibbons had it SO right when it came to asking a girl out:
"I wanna take you out to dinner, and then I wanna go back to my apartment and watch 'Kung Fu'. Do you ever watch 'Kung Fu'?"
"I love 'Kung Fu'."
"Channel 39."
"Totally."
"You should come over and watch 'Kung Fu' tonight."
Iceman.
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06-11-2009, 02:56 PM
#123
Fixed!
While I'm all for honesty, I find it safer (and more effective) to slowly "reveal" your intentions. This gives them a bit of time to digest and think about it. This, of course, is under the assumption that you're going for an honest relationship. Worked well for me for the current one, and the previous 3.
Don't know about the "make them laugh" thing. I'm not a funny person at all, but what was going for me was how I presented myself -- confident, almost bordering with some cockyness, yet still approachable, and a lot of eye-to-eye stares/talks/conversations. Or at least that's what my previous 3 ex's said. Also note that I am not exactly "their type" as far as looks are concerned.
......but, what do I know? LOL
While I'm all for honesty, I find it safer (and more effective) to slowly "reveal" your intentions. This gives them a bit of time to digest and think about it. This, of course, is under the assumption that you're going for an honest relationship. Worked well for me for the current one, and the previous 3.
Don't know about the "make them laugh" thing. I'm not a funny person at all, but what was going for me was how I presented myself -- confident, almost bordering with some cockyness, yet still approachable, and a lot of eye-to-eye stares/talks/conversations. Or at least that's what my previous 3 ex's said. Also note that I am not exactly "their type" as far as looks are concerned.
......but, what do I know? LOL
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06-11-2009, 02:58 PM
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Laughter is where the corny pick up lines come in, use one to make the girl laugh and break the ice... don't use it to try to sound suave
"I just want you to know that I'm resisting the urge to make you the happiest girl in the world tonight"
06-11-2009, 02:59 PM
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You're right, she will now know if youre funny or nice. But she will notice other things, like whether you make eye contact, the way you stand, the way you shake her hand, IF you even shake her hand. (Many guys barely acknowledge me at the meets, they don't think I even have a subaru...let alone shake my hand when introducing themselves to the group)She will listen to how you talk, what you walk about, if you talk to her, how you introduce yourself. She can read your body language. All very SMALL, SUBTLE things that, like i said earlier, hit the subconscious level.
06-11-2009, 03:05 PM
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There may be guys that are evil, but most are simply logical. I'm talking about day to day dealings. If some dude pulls something truly evil, that's a different story. The ratio of crazy men to crazy women is disproportionate. Men are not just as bad in the crazy department.
Every single woman is evil. Truth. It's how that woman manifests said evil that makes a difference.
Every single woman is evil. Truth. It's how that woman manifests said evil that makes a difference.
Woman: "Why did you sleep with her!?!?!?!?"
Man: "Well you still have my CD that you didn't give back 3 weeks ago!!"
I've had that kinda stuff happen ALL the time! Like whaaaat theeeeee fffff****???
06-11-2009, 03:10 PM
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Logical? I've seen guys do extremely dumb things on a day to day basis. I found myself saying "How come you didn't just....." And men in an argument? Logic is the LAST thing on their minds.
Woman: "Why did you sleep with her!?!?!?!?"
Man: "Well you still have my CD that you didn't give back 3 weeks ago!!"
I've had that kinda stuff happen ALL the time! Like whaaaat theeeeee fffff****???
Woman: "Why did you sleep with her!?!?!?!?"
Man: "Well you still have my CD that you didn't give back 3 weeks ago!!"
I've had that kinda stuff happen ALL the time! Like whaaaat theeeeee fffff****???
Logical thinking doesn't make one intelligent.
And again - the sleeping around thing; that's part of the 'pulling true evil' but that doesn't happen on a day to day basis.
06-11-2009, 03:11 PM
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Logical? I've seen guys do extremely dumb things on a day to day basis. I found myself saying "How come you didn't just....." And men in an argument? Logic is the LAST thing on their minds.
Woman: "Why did you sleep with her!?!?!?!?"
Man: "Well you still have my CD that you didn't give back 3 weeks ago!!"
I've had that kinda stuff happen ALL the time! Like whaaaat theeeeee fffff****???
Woman: "Why did you sleep with her!?!?!?!?"
Man: "Well you still have my CD that you didn't give back 3 weeks ago!!"
I've had that kinda stuff happen ALL the time! Like whaaaat theeeeee fffff****???
06-11-2009, 03:13 PM
#130
Making them laugh is key! If you play your cards right, sometimes you can get some French fries AND a phone number
Laughter is where the corny pick up lines come in, use one to make the girl laugh and break the ice... don't use it to try to sound suave
"I just want you to know that I'm resisting the urge to make you the happiest girl in the world tonight"
Laughter is where the corny pick up lines come in, use one to make the girl laugh and break the ice... don't use it to try to sound suave
"I just want you to know that I'm resisting the urge to make you the happiest girl in the world tonight"
I dont know either but its enough to break the ice
hi im mike
06-11-2009, 03:14 PM
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Yes, women do look for smart men. Money is a bonus. But Smart = charming, sweet, funny, and USUALLY nice, someone to hold a conversation with, someone to learn from, someone to grow from.
06-11-2009, 03:15 PM
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06-11-2009, 03:17 PM
#134
Hahaha I'll joke around with this with my gf's friends, see if they think it'll work 
06-11-2009, 03:18 PM
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Keep in mind, it doesn't always keep you out either. It's not an essential. It also doesn't always guarantee a spot it. I'm actually weary of really attractive guys. They tend to know they're good looking and are *******s. 90% I've met are like that.