AUDT: Some women are evil!
06-11-2009, 03:59 PM
#166
Anger does cut down on logical thought yes, but honestly - people who get angry over little things (ie. cheating would not be a 'little' thing), and take it out by yelling at their partner or what have you; I would argue they are not ready for a serious mature relationship.
Getting mad just puts a wedge between you and your partner; you should be happy with them; but undoubtedly they will do something that irks you - key is to keep your cool, address the situation and approach them with smile and kiss - not with a furrowed brow and clenched fist.
Getting mad just puts a wedge between you and your partner; you should be happy with them; but undoubtedly they will do something that irks you - key is to keep your cool, address the situation and approach them with smile and kiss - not with a furrowed brow and clenched fist.
i need to meet them haha
06-11-2009, 04:00 PM
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06-11-2009, 04:02 PM
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I can only speak for myself; I'm can't speak for other people - and I'm not going to air out my dirty laundry; but I will say that my past relationship reneged on arguments from MY end because of my ability to speak my feelings and try to reach common ground if there was a break in copecity.
06-11-2009, 04:03 PM
#170
I know, don't worry. They're my friends, so it's for pure entertainment 
Who said anything about being slick or hiding?
Humor me, how would you know if a guy wants to date (or is very attracted to) you? Do you telepathically invade his mind and hear his thoughts? Or do you read and make assumptions based on his actions?
This is where I'm getting at - if you're not confident that the feeling is mutual, slowly hint it through your actions that you are interested in her.
Like Penguin said, women are smart, so they'll immediately read it and get it in their heads. Sort of build it up a bit, and then make a way to get her alone and ask her out, in person.
I'm not saying to turn it into a month of mind games, but just enough time for her to think about it, and get possibly get excited to say yes or no.
Now, if you're sure the feeling is mutual, then I agree -- no point delaying.
......but like I said earlier, what do I know?
Who said anything about being slick or hiding?
Humor me, how would you know if a guy wants to date (or is very attracted to) you? Do you telepathically invade his mind and hear his thoughts? Or do you read and make assumptions based on his actions?
This is where I'm getting at - if you're not confident that the feeling is mutual, slowly hint it through your actions that you are interested in her.
Like Penguin said, women are smart, so they'll immediately read it and get it in their heads. Sort of build it up a bit, and then make a way to get her alone and ask her out, in person.
I'm not saying to turn it into a month of mind games, but just enough time for her to think about it, and get possibly get excited to say yes or no.
Now, if you're sure the feeling is mutual, then I agree -- no point delaying.
......but like I said earlier, what do I know?
06-11-2009, 04:09 PM
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But when it goes on for too long...if WE haven't brough it up by then...we probably don't want to ever come up. If we're interested in you, we'd pick up on it.
06-11-2009, 04:11 PM
#174
Hmm....i was just listening to this song from nickelback....
"...What's worth the price is always worth the fight...."
So, if the price we get for fighting/arguing is not getting any, then why fight?
......unless it's make-up sex, I guess?
"...What's worth the price is always worth the fight...."
So, if the price we get for fighting/arguing is not getting any, then why fight?
......unless it's make-up sex, I guess?
06-11-2009, 04:18 PM
#178
Every guy that has liked me, I've pretty much known. That is...if I know them and talk to them on a regular basis. I mean, how would I know if it was some creepy guy that stared at me in class all day? But that's not what I'm talking about. Back to my friend for example, he'd text me, ask me to hang out, offer rides to work, offer this and that. Offering to pay for stuff...there's SO MANY little things you can tell by. Girls are good at picking up "vibes."
But when it goes on for too long...if WE haven't brough it up by then...we probably don't want to ever come up. If we're interested in you, we'd pick up on it.
But when it goes on for too long...if WE haven't brough it up by then...we probably don't want to ever come up. If we're interested in you, we'd pick up on it.
). That's exactly what I was getting at -- show a few little things first, since women are smart and will pick up from these hints. Then ask her out shortly afterwards.Only women get away with mind games that are going on for too long. Unfortunately for us men, when we truly want someone, we are willing (although will never admit) to put up with the mind games from indecisive women. Women, on the other hand, can easily just move on to the next prospect.
06-11-2009, 04:20 PM
#179
......or am I just imagining things....?
EDIT: and what is a "lame excuse for sex"? As far as I remember, it takes two live organisms for sex - is it possible for one to say "blah blah blah, because of this, we have to have sex", and other goes "yeah, okay, but we're only having sex because of yor blah blah blah"?
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06-11-2009, 04:23 PM
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